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Eliza & Benjamin

A Whimsical Garden Gathering

Saturday, May 22, 2027

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We’re getting married in the garden this spring — come spend an unhurried, flower-strewn weekend with us.

Millbrook, New York

Eliza and Benjamin walking through a meadow

To plant a garden is to believe in tomorrow — so we planted one, and asked everyone we love to come stand in it.

Together with their families

invite you to a garden wedding

the marriage of

Eliza Fairweather

and

Benjamin Ashcombe

Drinks, dinner and dancing among the wildflowers to follow.

How it began

Our Story

  1. September 14, 2019

    A paper plane across the reading room

    They were strangers at facing desks in the library’s reading room. Benjamin, too shy to speak, folded a note into a paper aeroplane and sailed it over the lamps to Eliza. It read, simply, “Coffee?” She wrote “Tea.” and flew it back.

  2. April 3, 2021

    Sunday teacups

    Tea, it turned out, was a whole language. Every Sunday since has ended the same way — two mismatched cups, a pot going cold, and an argument about which biscuit is superior that neither of them intends to win.

  3. June 18, 2023

    The very rusty tandem

    They bought a bicycle-built-for-two at a barn sale for eleven dollars, wobbled the length of the lane, and fell into the hedgerow laughing. They have kept it, and it still only turns left.

  4. May 30, 2026

    A picnic in the meadow

    Benjamin packed the picnic basket, walked Eliza out to the far meadow where the poppies were up, and forgot the entire speech he’d rehearsed. She said yes before he found the ring under the sandwiches.

Where & when

The Details

Saturday, May 22, 2027

Wren Meadow

212 Old Quaker Hill Road, Millbrook, New York

  • DressSemi-formal garden party
  • ParkingFollow the split-rail fence to the lower meadow lot; a garden trolley runs guests up to the walled garden, or it’s a gentle five-minute stroll through the orchard.
  • Getting aroundThe ceremony lawn is reached by a level gravel path. There is a step-free route from the lower lot — tell any host and they’ll bring the trolley around.
Directions

The Glasshouse at Wren Meadow

212 Old Quaker Hill Road, Millbrook, New York

  • DressGarden casual — bring a layer for when the sun drops
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The weekend

The Weekend

FridayFriday, May 21, 2027

  1. 6 PM – 9 PM

    Welcome Drinks

    The Glasshouse at Wren Meadow

    Dress: Garden casual — bring a layer for when the sun drops

    Elderflower cocktails and long tables in the glasshouse, ringed by potted geraniums. Drop in whenever you arrive.

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SaturdaySaturday, May 22, 2027

  1. 4 PM – 4:45 PM

    The Ceremony

    Wren Meadow

    Dress: Semi-formal garden party

    Under the rose arbour in the walled garden, late afternoon. Arrive by 3:30 for a glass of something cold and a seat in the shade.

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  2. 6 PM – 12 AM

    Dinner & Dancing

    Wren Meadow

    Dinner at long tables in the meadow, then dancing on the lawn under strings of paper lanterns until the last firefly gives up.

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SundaySunday, May 23, 2027

  1. 10 AM – 1 PM

    Farewell Brunch

    The Glasshouse at Wren Meadow

    Tea, coffee, and everything from the bakery, one last time before you head down the valley. No plan, no speeches.

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Finding us

Travel

Everything happens within ten minutes of the village of Millbrook. The lanes are narrow and the point of the weekend is to slow down, so give yourself an easy afternoon — the late light in the garden is the whole idea.

Flying in

  • HPNWestchester County Airport55 min
  • ALBAlbany International1 hr 15 min
  • JFKNew York JFK2 hr

Where to stay

  • The Millbrook Inn

    Rate
    from $260 / night
    Code
    FAIRWEATHERASHCOMBE
    Book by
    April 1, 2027
    Directions
    8 min to Wren Meadow
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  • Quaker Hill Farmhouse

    Rate
    from $190 / night
    Code
    EB2027
    Directions
    5 min to the village green
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  • The Cottage at Wren Meadow

    Rate
    from $150 / night
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While you’re here

  • The Millbrook village greenA bookshop, a very good bakery, and the reading room where a certain paper plane took off.Visit
  • Innisfree GardenA famous cup garden of borrowed hills and quiet water. Go early on the Friday if you can.Visit
  • Wander the meadow trailsFlat, flower-lined loops through the fields; the poppies should be up by the wedding.
  • A Hudson Valley tea tastingThe tea room on Franklin Avenue pours a spring blend the couple are unreasonably fond of.

Our favourite people

The Party

Eliza

  • Clara Fairweather

    Maid of Honour

    Eliza’s sister and the reason there are this many flowers — she grows them, two fields over.

  • Nadia Okonkwo

    Bridesmaid

    Eliza’s oldest friend from art school, who taught her that a good picnic is nine-tenths of a good plan.

  • Frances Bello

    Bridesmaid

    Roommate, road-trip navigator, and the first person Eliza called the morning after the proposal.

Benjamin

  • Oliver Ashcombe

    Best Man

    Benjamin’s brother, and the only person trusted with the rings and the paper aeroplane story at the same time.

  • Samuel Reyes

    Groomsman

    Benjamin’s college roommate, keeper of terrible jokes and the tandem bicycle that started it all.

  • Reverend Alice Wren

    Officiant

    A family friend of thirty years who married Eliza’s parents, and insisted on marrying these two too.

If you’re inclined

Registry

Your being here — some of you from a long way off — is the whole gift. If you’d like to send something anyway, these are the lists, and the garden fund is winning by a mile.

Good to know

Good to Know

Colour and a little polish. Sundresses, linen suits, florals, bright colour — please. The ceremony is on grass, so wedges or flats over stilettos.

Will you come?

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Please reply by April 1, 2027.

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Well Wishes

  • We have been waiting for this since the paper plane and could not be happier. Save us a seat near the poppies.

    The Fairweather family

  • Finally. The speech is ready. The paper plane story stays in.

    Oliver

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